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Betty Jo Wray-Fears:
Helping parents, teachers with children
Betty
Jo Wray-Fears:
Shiatsu massage for children
Shaitsu
therapist:
"If you drop a stone in a pond, you will see concentric circles,
that's very much what happens in the five phases of change.
"Most ponds aren't free of debris, so sometimes the development
of the rings come out in oblong shapes.
"You lose the concentric circles.
"Shiatsu massage stimulates the phases of change, and allows the
circle to develop full and round again."
Book
The
Five Elements in the Lives of Children, 1998
Education
Institut Fur Shiatsu, Wiesbaden, Germany, Diploma in Shiatsu,
1987
University of Maryland, European Division, B.A., psychology, 1983
Humanities Center School of Allied Health, Licensure in Massage
Therapy, Florida, 1988 |
Shiatsu massage therapists
Betty Jo Wray-Fears and KarinKalbanter-Wernicke have written a book intended
for parents, teachers and therapists working with children. The book, The Five Elements in the Lives of Children, is based on Shiatsu
massage as a way to heal children now labeled as learning or behaviorally
disabled. Published in Germany in 1998, the two are now looking for a
publisher for the book in the United States.
Shiatsu massage
is based on the Chinese five elements: water, wood, fire, earth and
metal, which stand for the primal rhythm or movement of energy that
shapes a person's behavior and social-psychological elements. "Energy
flow can be shown in the Chinese five elements," Wray-Fears said. "It
is the movement of nature inside a human being. The same cycles that
occur in nature occur within our bodies. It is the primal system or
flow that exists in all mankind. An innate energy that flows in all
of us."
Each of the five
elements, said Wray-Fears, shows a stage of development or meridian
lines or pathways, organs, emotions and mental faculty connected with
development. The element wood, for example, is our ability to plan,
to create and be creative and to have visions. It begins with movement,
the ability to move left and right. An infant thinks, "If I move this
way I can reach this toy." This phase changes throughout the person's
entire life, she said: "It is a continual expansion and learning. Learning
to develop more, learning more ways to express himself."
In the highly technical
world today, some type of primal space rhythm has been disrupted, said
Wray-Fears. "You can observe from the first day a child is born different
stages of child development," she said. "All of the basic movements
a child makes are related to their physical and emotional state." When
a child is diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder or Clinical ADD,
said Wray-Fears, "what we're observing is not dysfunctions but actually
a movement of this energy system. The five elements have somewhere gotten
obstructed." This could occur, she said, by a fall, from being shocked
with a loud sound, from being in an over-stimulated environment, or
from having his or her movements impeded.
If one phase gets
blocked, all are affected, said Wray-Fears. This is where Shiatsu massage
comes in. The Five Elements in the Lives of Children, is a comprehensive,
introductory text which centers on children's physical and emotional
well-being, and shows how Shiatsu massage can help to help balance the
body physically, emotionally and mentally so children are then able
to observe where their lives have balance and where they don't. The
book describes the theory, gives examples of children who have been
helped by Shiatsu massage and asks questions of therapists and parents.
The book was written for parents, therapists and teachers to give them
examples to do on a verbal level to recognize the five phases of change
within themselves and children. The theory of Shiatsu massage is this,
said Wray-Fears: "If you drop a stone in a pond, you will see concentric
circles, that's very much what happens in the five phases of change.
Most ponds aren't free of debris, so sometimes the development of the
rings come out in oblong shapes. You lose the concentric circles. Shiatsu
massage stimulates the phases of change, and allows the circle to develop
full and round again."
Wray-Fears first
learned about Shiatsu massage while living in Germany, where she was
studying for a bachelor's degree in psychology from the European Division
of the University of Maryland. She began studying Shiatsu and completed
a diploma with the Institute for Shiatsu in Wiesbaden, Germany in 1987.
When she returned to the United States in 1988, she went back to massage
school to get licensed in Florida. Now a licensed massage therapist,
Wray-Fears now owns the Shiatsu Massage Institute in St. Petersburg,
Florida. She also teaches massage therapy at the Humanities Center school
of massage in Pinellas Park, Florida.
She and Kalbanter-Wernicke
met in Germany in 1984. They both expressed an interest in how Shiatsu
massage affected children. Their book, said Wray-Fears, is the first
to combine the Eastern and Western view of Shiatsu with children. "We're
trying to create an opening to children and their development," said
Wray-Fears. Kabanter-Wernicke is the main author, Wray-Fears wrote the
sections devoted to teachers, parents and therapists. She is now taking
the translated German manuscript and putting together the English version.
Wray-Fears said
the different time zones and the fact that she doesn't read German were
two main obstacles in working with Kalbanter-Wernicke long distance.
"Since I don't read German, I had to have any letters, etc., translated,"
she said. In spite of the difficulties, however, she said she liked
the challenge of putting the book together.
In addition to seeing
oriental body work and oriental medicine as a hobby as well as a career,
Wray-Fears enjoys boating and family activities with her husband, Greg
Fears, and her children Arielle, born in 1990, and Michael, born in
1993.
reported
by Kim Pawlak, 1999 |